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Japanese Au pairs in Australia

Bringing Cultures Together Through Trusted Japanese Au Pair Matches

Why become a host family for a Japanese Au pair / Demi pair?

01.

Affordable and Flexible Childcare

Au Pairs offer a cost-effective and flexible childcare solution, adjusting to your family’s needs.

02.

Amazing Cultural Exchange

Hosting an Au Pair introduces your family to new cultures and languages, enriching your children’s experiences.

03.

Personalised Care

Au Pairs provide consistent, personalized care while helping with light household tasks, creating a supportive family environment.

Au Pair and Demi pair 

There are different types to suit your needs—choose what works best for your family!

Provides 30+ hours/week of childcare and light housework in exchange for a private room, 3 meals daily, and pocket money (from $240/week).

AU PAIR

Like an Au Pair but with 18 hours/week of help in exchange for a room and 3 meals daily. Many attend English school or do part-time work alongside.

Demi pair

Provides 25 hours/week of childcare and light housework for a private room, 3 meals daily, and $140/week pocket money—ideal for families needing a little extra help.

Demi Au pair

Two cultures, one family

Pros and Cons

So you like Japanese food, culture, anime, people and you're considering hiring a Japanese au pair? Awesome choice!

But before you dive in, let's take a closer look at what you're signing up for.

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Pros

1

Polite

Japanese people are often considered very polite. Japan has many etiquette standards and it would be very unusual to not teach a child how to follow them. Being polite also helps to put forward a good ‘face’ and is considered part of the structure of society.

2

Hard working

Many Japanese people are hardworking and are very committed to their work. This is related to critical values, with a strong sense of duty and obligation and a need to maintain the harmony of doing overtime when everyone else is doing overtime.

3

Punctual

Being late is seen as disrespectful to the other party as if you don’t value their time and work. When attending meetings and appointments in Japan, it is best to arrive early or be on time at the latest. Even casual catch-ups with friends expect a high standard of punctuality.

Cons

Japanese Culture is entirely different. These are my top cons of living with Japanese.

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The Language Barrier

We do not speak English in Japan. Au pairs are here to learn and improve English throughout their stay with your family.

Some may be too shy to speak up, embarrassed to make mistakes.

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The Social Nuances

Japanese usually being more indirect, less social and less open.
Since Japanese has Non-verbal communication, you may find the Japanese au pairs too shy and too quiet.

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Preparation

We have many rules in Japan.  Rules are made to keep the order and avoid chaos.

As a result, a well-prepared schedule and house rules must be organized in advance.

But as the old saying goes,
“Nothing good ever came easy.”

The good stuff never comes when things are easy!

By addressing these factors proactively and fostering open communication and understanding, families need to be very specific as to what you need help and be patient.

This effort can create a rewarding and enriching experience for both their children and their Japanese au pair.

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SIMPLE KINDNESS and PATIENCE are THE KEY!

Every au pair has unique strengths and abilities. If your au pair isn’t skilled in certain tasks like sushi-making or ironing, consider assigning duties that better align with their strengths.

Remember, they bring their own personalities and talents—let’s embrace their strengths and support their growth together!

Au pair training and Special courses for Au pairs

Your Au pair all do have thorough training before they start as a demi pair/au pair. This includes online training in Japan and a more relaxed session when they arrive at some point in their stay.

They also receive a very thorough training manual.

How we prepare your Au pair

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Au Pair Training Session

  1. Covers key expectations: proactivity, open communication, following rules, and integrating into the family
     

  2. Includes role-playing exercises for handling real-life situations (e.g., discussing concerns with the host family)

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Childcare Seminar

  1. We ask families to provide necessary details about their children and parenting philosophy in advance.
     

  2. Covers key childcare principles: staying calm, positive, engaged, and adapting to the family’s expectations.
     

  3. Case studies of past au pairs to highlight challenges and solutions

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English Lessons with a Native Speaker

  1. Helps improve communication skills for daily life and childcare
     

  2. If an au pair’s English does not meet the family’s expectations, extra support may be provided or a family change may be considered

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Cultural Difference Workshop

  1. Explores Japanese vs. Australian communication styles (e.g., politeness vs. directness)
     

  2. Practical exercises: interpreting indirect vs. direct communication styles, common misunderstandings

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They are provided with support during their stay, invitations to the Facebook private Au pair group, and social gatherings in Perth

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Au Pair Manual Booklet

  1. Contains all training materials, practical tips,  and troubleshooting advice
     

  2. Includes real-life case studies and FAQs to help au pairs handle common challenges

*Families are responsible for training au pairs on cleaning duties because household expectations and cleaning routines vary greatly between families. Since the approach to housework is so individual, we found that it makes sense to leave it to the families to guide their au pair in those areas. 

Contact Us

Ready to get started or have any questions? Schedule your free 30-minute Zoom meeting using the form below. 

I look forward to speaking with you soon!

**We currently partner exclusively with families who have previously hosted Japanese au pairs, demi pairs, or exchange students.

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Terms and Conditions for Host Families

At Japanese Au Pairs in Australia, we are committed to making the process of finding a reliable Au Pair as smooth as possible. We carefully select candidates; however, the final decision rests with the host family. To ensure a successful placement, we encourage families to clearly define their expectations and provide appropriate guidance.

We do not take responsibility for the actions, conduct, or performance of any Au Pair placed through our platform. It is the host family’s responsibility to provide supervision and ensure that all agreed-upon duties are carried out effectively.

While we cannot guarantee specific outcomes, we operate with transparency and are here to support both families and Au Pairs throughout the placement.

A placement/support fee is required for matching a family with an Au Pair, with extension fees applicable if the family wishes to extend the placement. These fees are non-refundable once the process has begun.

A one-time registration fee of $200 applies, along with a $400 fee for a 3-month contract. If a family requires a second placement after the contract, a discounted rate will be offered.

By using our placement service, you acknowledge and accept these terms. If you have any questions or need assistance, please don’t hesitate to contact us—we are here to help make your experience a positive one.

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